How You Show Up: A.K.A. A Brief Guide on How to Have One Hell of a Party
When our couples tell us the purpose of their day (aside from getting hitched, duh), we most often hear, "Have a hell of a party with our people!"
We're all about it! But that goal goes beyond planning a one day event with great music, food and booze. It starts with how you show up in your community.
During your months wedding planning, are you balancing booking your band with checking in with your friends from college? Are you remembering big and small life events of those around you and asking your friends what's going on in their lives too?
We’re not saying dilute your joy and the significance of your marriage celebration by making it “all about others.” What we are saying is that including others in your day-to-day life and having genuine connection with them adds a richness to your celebration and overall life.
So here’s our brief guide to having one hell of a party on your wedding day: take care to show up in your friendships and relationships with reciprocation, love and intention.
Don’t put that on the back burner during wedding planning. The continued presence and care you show to your people is what will create that electricity on the dance floor, joyful hum around the dinner tables, and laughter as you squish and spill drinks together in the lounge.
So cheers, friends, to delight and connection that will enliven your wedding and sustain your life for years to come!
